Thousands protest today outside of church buildings in Los Angeles due to the pass of proposition 8. This got me thinking and instead of just thinking this I decided I would write it down so if anyone asks my opinion on the matter I can just point to this blog post....and hopefully get them reading this...
Now the word marriage means a promise between 2 people and God. The problem with gay people becoming married is there is no God so you couldn't possibly be married. The word doesn't make sense by definition, I could consider myself a skydiver but if I've never actually jumped out of a plane the term doesn't really apply to me. Now I'm not just singling out gay people I'm also talking about non Christians as well they are making a promise to something that doesn't hold any validity to them so I would argue they are not married as well and it offends me just as much as say a gay person using the word married to mean someone they live with and like a lot.
People have tried to solve this problem by making civil unions but that just offends them more, they want to be considered married. This is a hard subject for me because to be honest I don't really care that they are unified by the state and they have some wedding like thing really I don't. Does making it illegal to be married make them live their lives the way God would want them to live? No. Does it bring them farther from the Kingdom if they are married to another person of the same sex instead of just practicing homosexual acts everyday? NO! Are they any lesser of people because they are gay? Of course not. I really don't mind if they have the same rights at all the problem is how do we give them "marriage" without destroying the Holiness of the word and without offending them and turning them even farther away from the Cross? Remember the whole reason why we as Christians are here is to bring others into the kingdom.
The best idea I could come up with was create a new word for the meaning of marriage. Now I know what many Christians will say about this argument. "We shouldn't have to change our views because of the world" "Thats retreating from the problem instead of standing and fighting what is wrong." My response to that would just be I don't think its homosexuals that are ruining the definition of marriage I think its heterosexual couples not living up to what marriage should be according to God. Its already been ruined by non Christians for many MANY years and now all of a sudden Gay people want to get married and its the most offensive thing they've ever heard(some Christians not all by any stretch of the imagination mind you). This is why I believe we should come up with another name for a union between man and women and God. Maybe use the Greek word γάμος or gamos to refer to 2 Christians uniting with them and God.
All just ideas and opinions of me, I know there are far more smarter people than myself thinking these things through and coming up with solutions but I just thought with all this mumbo jumbo with Prop. 8 passing that I should get my opinions out before I forgot them.
Thanks for reading this ridiculously long and not happy post.
Ian